The boys can't join me :(

[i69i]

When ever I create a lobby it keeps me on loading screen when I do "xpartygo" and my friends can't join me, also when I'm inside the game it tells them the game is private and they can't join me

UPnP: Enabled

[Dss0]

i69i set party privacy to public (not sure this does anything but worth a try) and don't start it with xpartygo, just click start match.

[i69i]

Party privacy is already public,
before I start the game I make min player to 4 and then it take me to loading and say waiting for 3 more players but my friends see that I'm in private lobby and can't join me.

[Resxt]

i69i If you only checked UPnP then you didn't read the guide
https://plutonium.pw/docs/custom-games/

[i69i]

@lResxt So I have to port forward so they can join me ?

[Dss0]

i69i well it's possible for upnp to be enabled but it still not working in which case port forwarding may be necessary.