I can´t play with custom games with friends

[RedDarius]

Hi, my friend and I have been trying to connect to a custom game for a few hours. We have tried both that he create it and that I create it but the result is the same, neither of us can connect to the started game, we simply write for example: connect 187.250.203.173:4976 AND NOTHING HAPPENS :((
Can someone help me?
(Before de update we could play)

[Bito]

do you type xpartygo in the console to start the game?

[RedDarius]

Bito
I did.
while I'm in my custom game my friend tries to connect to it.