doesnt let me connect to any server without vpn and most servers dont allow vpn

[rynke]

without vpn the server list is only with inactive servers(servers with no players) and then i tried to find a server on getserve . rs and connect with the console and it just kept saying connecting for 30 minutes, then i tried to use a vpn and the server browser got back with alot of players and every server connected fast, but then on all hgm servers i was kicked because of its not allowed to use vpn on their servers, and it doesnt block the plutonium bootstrapper or iw5mp in the firewall, idk much abt firewalls and stuff like that tho but please help