Cannot connect in private match

[S_Torres0427]

Help needed with the new update me and my friend installed it and then we tried to connect in a private match but it says joining and then the prompt goes away and then nothing happens .
notes my unpn is enabled and it does give us in private match status

[Dss0]

S_Torres0427 upnp has to be enabled for whoever hosts the match, also the host has to start the match before others are able to connect.

[S_Torres0427]

Dss0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEteZoc31fE&feature=youtu.be

hope fully this can help explain what is happening

[Dss0]

S_Torres0427 dunno, just try the old way of forwarding port 4976 in the router and connecting via the console.

[S_Torres0427]

Dss0 lol ok