So my friend made his own server I tried joining it and it showed joining session and it went away so ya as the title says do I need upnp enabled to play with friends ??
CubeGamer17 server or private match? Only the host has to have upnp enabled but even if he does it's still possible the connection fails, in that case the host has to forward port 4976 udp in his router.
Dss0 ah sorry for the confusion its custom game and thanks for the help