need help with getting a friend to join

[lonelyfukr60]

so i did the private thing on my ethernet and my wifi but it still says its disabled and i dont understand how port whatever works ive tried for the past few hours getting shit to work but i wont, i really just wanna vibe in buired with a friend

[maxnest]

Dude plutonium is broken I did the port thing multiple times with my sister and it says joining game session and I does not join