Private server not working

[DryBones998]

DryBones998 last edited by DryBones998

So me and my friend are trying to 1v1 so I tried to make a private server. I followed everything in this guide. https://forum.plutonium.pw/topic/1239/private-match-with-friends
After port forwarding and also checking my ports it still doesn't work. he put my IP and everything correctly so I don't know what to do.

[Dss0]

Dss0 Plutonium Staff Staff last edited by @ DryBones998

@DryBones998 did you start the match? Is he using the ip you see here https://www.whatsmyip.org/ ? Post a screenshot of your port forwarding settings.

[DryBones998]

DryBones998 last edited by @ Dss0

@Dss0 yeah he is using my public IP, I can't get a photo of my port forwarding setting bc I do it on my phone because I have a shaw blue curve. I'm trying it with Radmin VPN rn and its fine when alone in the match but as soon as he joins we both get 999 ping

[DryBones998]

DryBones998 last edited by DryBones998

if it is not 999 it is constant 120-140 ping