This is old but for anyone still trying to figure it out, I changed my language by opening localization.txt and re-writing the language on the top to 'English'. Worked for me.
Nah that's probably not the limit when you're playing solo or custom games, you'll be able to join eventually whereas for dedi servers, as I said above, 90 secs is the limit. Regardless, stop continuing this topic as nothing you'll say is gonna change that, so either get a SSD or a better HDD or just play solo.
