@nmdlol a more lenient system would make the entire system useless if all you had to do was "claim you didn't read the instructions" and everyone was able to be unbanned"
I mean 2 chances SHOULD be plenty to learn the lesson. After the first, there is no excuse not to get smart on the issue and figure out what you did wrong.
I would agree with your argument if it was a "one and done" thing.