Conzt_Waltz it didnt work but i found another way and its so easy
just dowload radmin vpn (hamachi didnt work for sum reason)
and copy the ip address and open the console and type connect "ip address"of the radmin vpn address and it worked with and without mods and in every mode worked and whats even better it worked for bo2 and a lot of games but thank you for responding to me, everyone thought my qusetion was dumb