If people didn't have the worst taste ever by playing TDM Nuketown/Hijacked/Raid 24/7, trickshot and cheat zombies with infinite money etc maybe actual decent server owners would have a chance to be popular which would lead to most popular servers not being run by dumbasses like that
Since it won't change gotta accept the community being shit, especially on BO2 and either take the bans or play better servers or host your own

