Okay, so it seems to work 100% correctly when we are both on the same band, either 2.4 or 5ghz. I don't remember this being a thing, but I can roll with it for the time being.
that said, I typically have around 3-5 people join my server at a time along with voice chat. How much bandwidth is typically needed per connection to maintain a smooth connection? would 2.4ghz at full strenth and full 300mbps be fast enough for that many connections?